Well I will be meeting W on thursday after all. Seems she was able to switch her shift at work as to fit me in. I am nervous about meeting with her. It has been two months since I have seen her and 3 months since the bomb. We are meeting at a local coffee place. It is really weird feeling nervous about meeting my W. I am just scared that I will fall out of DBing ways. It was almost easier with No Contact as I knew that as long as I didn't call her I wouldn't screw up.
I need to go in there being strong and confident and thinking well whatever she says I will be fine and there are a lot of women out there.
All she stated before was that she wanted to talk about: Money The house etc
Not sure what etc is and I am thinking that she is wanting to sell the house.
When she talks of selling the house do I let her set it up with the realtor and everything or do I handle that since I still live in the house?
Also do I tell her that I do not agree with the D but say I won't stop her?
Other than that I will let her do the talking and validate her concerns if they come up. Trying to stay out of too much R/D talk.
"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33