He asked me to call him last night after kids were in bed. I fell asleep in their room and didn't call him back till 10:30, got his v.m.
Of course my first thought was, what is he doing at 10:30 that he couldn't answer the phone? So that tells you where my mind goes, that will be hard to battle if we ever try again...
Anyway when I emailed him this morning after his sad-face email about Sydney, I told him that the reasons he gave me (Nathan and Sydney) were valid reasons, but not the biggest reason. That I was nowhere on the short list he gave...anyway I told him I had not changed my mind. That I spent 18 mos. coming up with things we could try to fix us, that he needed to know on his own what he wanted to do.
Nothing left to say about it. If I can round up the documents tonight I will be heading to atty's tomorrow after school to sign the petition.
