Originally Posted By: Hope4Luv
How can H really walk into therapy and say MY two problems are the only problems?


Possibly, because he is a very scared man... afraid of looking at and admitting his faults.

Possibly because his self-esteem is poor and he equates having problems/issues/human frailties as 'bad' = he's bad & not lovable

Possibly in his mind no frailties = he's all good & lovable

His actions & words are horrible, I'm not excusing them..

finding some compassion for the 'why'.. might make your mental load lighter.

just a thought based on some of my experiences
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