Mrs. Thinker called me at work today. "I'm going to be downtown near the mall this morning. Would you like to meet me to look at a ring I found?"

Of course I said yes, and re-arranged my work schedule to become free.

We met and she showed me the ring. I agreed with her choice -- Tasteful, beautiful, and on sale at a price < what the insurance company paid us for the one she lost smile .

She wanted the ring. I bought it, paid for it, put it on her finger, and kissed her there in the store.

So now she's wearing a wedding ring again - completely at her own initiative. I'm back at work for the afternoon. She drove off to go meet her mom (and show her the ring).

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Mrs. Thinker is also still driving forward with the idea of us moving. She found one which would be great for us and is talking to everyone about it. I like the house and the idea of the move, but am staying clear with "I'm not moving our M problems."

17 days until Retrouvaille.

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Tonight I am going out with a long-time friend who lives locally for a manly "ATF" evening (Alcohol, tobacco and Firearms, not necessarily in that order laugh ). We're meeting at a pistol range after work.

Last edited by Thinker; 09/01/09 05:10 PM.

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M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08
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