Bbj, I was sucked back in the situation, a year ago by a man that sounded almost like Dan. stbxH said more words and even declared his love for me back then. If you remember I was telling you guys there was no passion or determination nor hapinness while he was trying to make me decide to agree. Reconciling is hard enough when both partners are on board, imagine how successful it would be when one of them is...not there with his heart. If you want to know, read my last thread.
Maybe, just maybe, (and there is regret there for me) if you keep on doing what you are doing, you will get soon (-er than I did) the replies you re looking for. As your friend, I am telling you NOT to back down at this point. Just as mike says, firmer boundaries and stronger Bbj. And as Bill used to tell me, have no doubt, he knows what he needs to do and towards whome. K
