I can relate to what you are saying about your W being unhappy with you as mine was the same way or at least that's what she thought. Personally I think she was unhappy with herself more then anything. Not saying that I'm perfect. Just saying she was feeling unhappy and just happen to look over and saw me and bam there's the reason. Now that she has been gone for nine months she is still unhappy. Sure she continued to blame it on me for a while and I was a willing accomplice by trying to hold fast. Now that I've let her go guess what, she's still unhappy. The hard part is watching her search for happiness as if it is a magic box.
_________________________ Me-41 W-39 M-15 yrs T-17 yrs D-12 S-9 S-8 B 5/08 S 1/09