I completely missed this yesterday. I read this and it is uncanny how many things are similar to my sitch. I spent 5 years running my own agency somewhat successful then tanked when the bubble burst. W was there for me without question. Similarities, on and on and on. It makes me sad because I see her in your situation but it also gives me hope for both of us because I know my eyes are open now and if I can do it, so can he. As I watch you processing things I think that someday W may be able to start on a path of reconciliation with me. I know we have to take care of ourselves, detach and move forward but I have hope for both of us even though I cant see exactly what the future will look like.
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AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09