He wants to come back- I told him not until he goes through some therapy by himself and I heal. He says if he does that then he'll forget me. Well, I feel like I can't do everything his way anymore. I want him back but not his issues- I think he needs to fix himself first. Opinions?
He is trying to manipulate you...don't fall for it. All cheaters lie, its what they do and they will say or do ANYTHING to restore the balance to their little world. When he is sincere about wanting to make things better, his actions will SHOW you. For the time being believe nothing that you hear and only about 1/2 of what you see.
Read back through my sitch if you don't believe me. Your actions right now are killing his fantasy and he will move heaven and earth to restore the delicate balance to what has become his life.
JMO, but so far you are doing a WONDERFUL job at DB'ing. Keep it up.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
