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Well, I for one had no idea that was what you were seeking...the nitty and gritty from WAW. If that was cathartic for you (and sure sounds like it was) then good for you. I definitely missed it but I suppose that was what you were trying to do here so better to get it straight from the horses mouth.



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God, I love you, SP.

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@Kimmie Lee -- why thank you, ma'am. 'Twarnt nuthin' really.

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Originally Posted By: SmileysPerson
Now. Finally. The brush has been cleared. We can move forward, in whatever direction "forward" takes us, with everything out in the open.


Amen. Whew!!!


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Go, man, GO!


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Now. Finally. The brush has been cleared. We can move forward, in whatever direction "forward" takes us, with everything out in the open.


So you two had a honest dialouge finally? Never forget how good it feels to have a honest, transparent and mutual dialouge on a personal level.

Cheers

ps Good job using your voice.


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Originally Posted By: pollyanna
I thought that projecting ourselves and our experiances in to other peoples sitchs on these boards is what these boards are all about ?

How else do we learn and change and have hope here ?


No, Pollyanna, this is not what these boards are all about. Learn, grow and change - have hope, but never project yourself onto another thread.


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I think that rather than projecting, it is relating that we do here and we all do it. We have too much in common not to.



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The projection resides in unwarranted assumptions and/or palpable rage WRT the original poster's sitch.


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I get what you're saying Kett but I actually think it is all useful. Sometimes that hostility can sort of represent for the other party and give the poster a challenge and an opportunity to confront it.

It's words on screen, nothing too scary about it.



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