"The best two reasons are sleeping across the hall from you"
Where have they been sleeping for the last few years????
How about the person still sleeping in the same bed without her husband? Is that the third reason fourth fith or not even a reason?
He is lucky that you even speak with him.
I sense a change in you BBJ. I do not know what the final trigger was but I am glad that you finally have reached this point (regardless of the outcome). you sound alot stronger.