Right now I'm still scared that the OM will change his mind and that he'll decide to take my wife back. If that happens, I don't know what I'll do.
So you lose when he gets bold, confident and aggressive in declaring what he decides. Why would your wife be attracted to a guy like that?
BTW, Boundaries aren't controlling.
Last edited by Coach; 09/01/0903:49 PM.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.