Well, I for one had no idea that was what you were seeking...the nitty and gritty from WAW. If that was cathartic for you (and sure sounds like it was) then good for you. I definitely missed it but I suppose that was what you were trying to do here so better to get it straight from the horses mouth.
Now. Finally. The brush has been cleared. We can move forward, in whatever direction "forward" takes us, with everything out in the open.
So you two had a honest dialouge finally? Never forget how good it feels to have a honest, transparent and mutual dialouge on a personal level.
Cheers
ps Good job using your voice.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
I thought that projecting ourselves and our experiances in to other peoples sitchs on these boards is what these boards are all about ?
How else do we learn and change and have hope here ?
No, Pollyanna, this is not what these boards are all about. Learn, grow and change - have hope, but never project yourself onto another thread.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
I get what you're saying Kett but I actually think it is all useful. Sometimes that hostility can sort of represent for the other party and give the poster a challenge and an opportunity to confront it.