Hey, I just recently learned that my H did file for D. He did back in late May/early June when things were bad. (We had a bad stretch in early January and late May into early June.) Apparently, according to H, it took about a month to get the paper work together and retainer, and etc. So he filed July 8. But oddly enough, we're still dating. WTF????
The old me would have hit the roof when I found out. But the new me, just shook my head and said "Seriously?" Then I ironed some shirts and watched Family Guy.
It gets funnier. His lawyer screwed the filing up...said H wanted to be the primary. H was all sorts of weird out about it. Since I've found out he's been oddly attentive.