Hey, I just recently learned that my H did file for D. He did back in late May/early June when things were bad. (We had a bad stretch in early January and late May into early June.) Apparently, according to H, it took about a month to get the paper work together and retainer, and etc. So he filed July 8. But oddly enough, we're still dating. Who knows RSF? All I can tell you is that once you let it go, and really really let it go, there'sa weird calm. The old me would have hit the roof when I found out. But the new me, just shook my head and said "Seriously?" Then I ironed some shirts and watched Family Guy. It gets funnier. His lawyer screwed the filing up...said H wanted to be the primary. H was all sorts of weird out about it. Since I've found out he's been oddly attentive.
