Sorry d1 did not mean to ignore you, I just get lost on this forum sometimes and other times I need a break from it.
I never did post my sitch, I guess its because its pretty much the same as most of the sitch’s I read here, even yours. My wife says the same things and acts the same way.
That is the strange part, I have not found an explanation as to why they act so similar. I hear allot of people say this but why? why do waw's have so much in common?
Is some of the reason because they are getting older and lousing looks? the self esteem takes a big hit they no longer feel loved because they do not love themselves?
They want to be loved like before and feel that will improve the self esteem issue but they feel they cant get that from H so H becomes the problem…H even becomes the reason they feel the way they do I don’t know I am rambling now ... only waw’s know…
I know one thing, becoming detached helps, I have seen some improvement in my sitch.
I think most of us try and become detached to improve our sitch, once we are detached the sitch is not really a big deal anymore, it’s like …I don’t know maybe a minor annoyance? .. at the end of the day detachment is something you do for yourself, you just do not realize it until you get there
