No these relationships usually do not work. They are new, exciting, and usually based on sexual attraction. The "love" is not really love. These two do not know each other secrets, habits both good and bad, and how bad their farts smell because they haven't done it in front of each other yet.
At any rate, you get my point. As far as it being your business, whether it is or not is irrelevant. Can you do anything about it? Probably not.
Remember this prayer:
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change The courage to change the things I can And the wisdom to know the difference.
Might powerful words. Memorize them, read them, and think about what they mean. Can you change her? No. Accept that. She can only change herself. Can you change you? Yes. Work on that. But don't do it for her, do it for you. Be the best you that you can be for you. If you get reconciliation out of it, that is dessert after a four course meal.
((((hugs))))
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
