N, The email is full of bs. I would say that she is attempting to paint a rosy picture of life over there. Why? Because she knows that no one will come over there to verify what they actually have or are doing. Believe none of what you hear and only 1/2 of what they do.
So, there's a photo of the two munchkins. How nice. Get that photo out and take a very long, hard look at your xh. Check the facial expression out and then make your assessment of the situation.
This woman is not only trying to convince the world of their glorified happiness, but she wants to make sure that she's putting a dagger in your heart. Do yourself a favor....delete the email and do not reply back. She's trash and not worth it. N, she's a very insecure individual if she's sending you this.
I don't believe a word of it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I'm sorry you had to experience that stupid, cruel, email.
The hurt they caused you from that will return to them.
Just remember, EMPTY TRUCKS MAKE THE MOST NOISE......
No one sends an email like that if they are truly happy.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
This OW letter is so full of pompous, self indulgent make believe. You should be laughing your a$$ off instead of feeling hurt.
The "staff"? Housekeeper? Gardner? Security? All is "calm and wonderful"? Pa...leeeze! Anyone with half a brain can see straight through that bullsheet.
Consider the email a gift. The universe is letting you know that all is not well in paradise.
Stay strong.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
Thank you all so much for your response to this!!! You all make me feel better. I have to agree, not all is well in paradise!!!
I've never even been around or heard of someone being so cruel as this OW is being. It's like daytime soaps, which I don't watch but used to probably 30 years ago, I'm sure it's much worse now than it was then. Anyway, I thought that was just TV, I never dreamed anyone could be like that in real life, but they really can! I believe now my ex has come face to face with the devil!
I'm really down right now, not only about that (which I'm somewhat better b/c I know they are not as happy or I wouldn't get that email) but I'm really down about my job. I've only been working part-time from home, charging as contract labor, which is more than regular rate, but I'm working a lot more hours these past couple of months b/c there is more to do. Well, they got my bill for last month & they were not happy. So, I may have to cut my rate, which is fine but it's just got me bummed out.
I'm just ready for a break, I can't figure out what I've done to deserve this email from this OW, even tho I know it was sent b/c she still feels threatened by me but it still hurts. Also, how my ex could get so mixed up with someone like this!
Oh & by the way, I looked up the website for her "new business" it is:
Speaking to your Customers or Clients in proper English is the ONLY way to do business.
She is using my ex's last name as the website & email address. Whatever!
Thank you all for being here for me. Just a very depressing night!!
