Coach, I hear you in my anger has been released thought pattern.
Here's the rub. I am not angry FOR ME. I am upset she would participate in breaking up another family. OK, so, I guess that means you're right - I am angry for me.
But, I cannot reveal I know about it b/c my friend needs my help right now, help that I think should be provided in confidence.
If I reveal to my W I know (which I am NOT inclined to do - not b/c I am fearrful for ME, but b/c it could blow up my friend's sitch), then my friend's W will know my friend and I are "teaming up" to try to beat the D his W says she wants. I do not suspect my W is at the "D is the only option" phase anymore.
So, how to handle this. I cannot breach my friend's confidence, and I won't.
