Then let him ask you for those details... not your problem he's anal about it.
What you need to know up front is: Is he willing to even consider giving you the cash?
If he is then.. the details become necessary for that business transaction to take place.
Yes, it's business, but also a chance to build trust & show him you can continue to deal with the details.
You have the details, you understand the nuances, you have a back-up plan.. he doesn't need to know all that up front to give you an answer to the first question. He may choose...
Yes, not a problem.. what are the details? (as in how much?) Maybe, what are the details? Nope, sucks to be Wifey.
Good luck! Peace Bridge
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