Well, for good or ill, H now knows our anniv. is coming up, and no I did not tell him on purpose.
He spent some time working on his game this evening, then talked about how there wasn't all that much to do, if he could just have a weekend where he could be a hermit and really focus, he could launch it.
Dia: Tell you what, we both have a three day weekend coming up, so one of the days I'll take kidlet to a movie or somesuch and you can take some quiet time for your game. How's that?
(And NO, I wasn't angling. It was an honest, good-hearted offer.)
H: We have a three day weekend??
Dia: (nods)
H: Are you sure?
Dia: Pretty sure. I know I do, at least.
H: What weekend is it? Wait - what month is is this?
Dia: September starts tomorrow.
H: Oh, *that* weekend. (But smiling. Slightly deer-in-the-headlights, but smiling.)
No clue where this will lead, but we'll see.
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Wow - strange. I just got the most intimate, almost.. passionate ... hug I've gotten since being back here. In fact, I almost thought I was going to get kissed, and that's the 2nd time tonight I've thought that.
And it was en passant, too - not a good-bye hug, not a good night hugs - a pure 'because the moment moved me' hug.
Cool. I'll take it.
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Dia - could you please go check out the email I want to send to my H. I tried to keep it strictly business, but I need opinions, please.
And the nuts story had me in stitches.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
H's mother took a fall yesterday. To my knowledge, she is only bruised/sore and not seriously injured. FIL, who just got here late last night, is heading back down to take care of her. I am coordinating sending flowers in H's name.
Her bday and their anniversary are the same day as ours, so I will be sending her something to commemorate those occasions as well.
Last edited by Dia; 09/01/0903:54 PM.
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