I awoke at four in the morning with visions of the two of them together and was not able to block it out. By five I was writing a email note to her trying to expain how I thought what she is and will be doing to the family is wrong. Her R with the OM is really none of my business but becuase this R impacts the family, I feel like it should be my business.
My friends have adviced me not to send such a note. In their minds if it does not have anything to do with moving on, then what is the point. I followed their advice and did not send it.
I found out about her EA about a year ago; once I found out she was remorseful and wanted to work on us. Then once we decided on a trial separation (about three months ago)she was back with him in a few weeks. Do relationships of this type usually work out?
