Why can't you let your wife know how you feel and why you think this is none of her business? Nothing wrong with the way you feel. If you tell her you make it about the behavior not personal. Has holding your feelings/thoughts back in the past been a "Nice Guy" technique? (Don't want to tell her how I feel it might upset her.)
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OK, that's the emotional side, and it feels good to get that out. Now for the logical side. The logical side says my W is doing what any other friend probably would...providing support to help her friend stop hurting as quickly as possible.
So you can validate part of it. But don't you matter as well? You will start loving your wife better when you start loving yourself better. You can handle it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
