This is a good point. I am angry right now. Not knock down-drag out angry, but angry. I can put that aside for now. I am trying to look at my W the way you describe, "that's just how she has to be today". Last night I was able to look at her a little differently, more like a roommate. The only time I thought I might lose that thought quite frankly was when she bent over to pick up something she dropped. This is one area where I have troubles detaching the often. The sexual attraction.
Regardless, I also have those dreams, and she is the one taking them away from me.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.