[quote=Stronger]You don't.
But his actions are not that of a man in love anymore than my H's actions were of a man who wanted a divorce. (He never acted like one except for about three weeks in January. Other than that, he was/is around an awful lot for a man who "wants out".)

What would his actions be if he was in love? Would he still be living in my basement? Would he still hang out with me on the weekends or talk to me at night?