Coach and GIMA are better at this than I am, but I think it's the concept of letting go of the outcome, but not really letting go of the person. Not pursuing, but not going all cold and withdrawn.
YES YES YES YES YES! I forgot about this part, but it's absolutely true. Detach from the outcome...if you do that, it's easier to stop trying to control or manipulate someone else's actions.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
