I feel like I can't do everything his way anymore.
And you shouldn't have to. You need to take control of you, you surely can't change him, only he can. If he wants you back so bad, he shouldn't have to be told or tell you what he'll do, he NEEDS to just do it and you don't need to communicate that to him.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11