Well still not heard from the H s not much to report.
Still feeling positive though, had a great weekend out and about. Went to the pub for a quick drink with the kids and it occurred to me that my H would never be able to do that without organizing it days in advance. Which is sad, the kids are at the stage when they are leaving home and I’m going to enjoy them whilst there still here. My H has missed out on nearly two years of this more fool him. And for what a woman who’s less than half my equal with screwed up kids. Good luck to him I say!!