WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 11

[confusedinpa]

Here is my latest rev of what I am going to send her. I added a words of honesty and respect.

I will send it this morning and would love to get some feedback

Wife,

I thought I would email you and better have my thoughts put together and give you a chance to respond in kind.

I am concerned that when I picked up our boys this past Thursday, _____ and _____ were upset that they were told that their father was doing bad things.

The damage brought upon us and our boys from the separation is already done. I am asking you to please avoid adding to their pain, suffering and confusion through inappropriate comments and/or actions. The details that brought our marriage to this point will be handled by adults. I will continue to live up to my promise to protect _____ and _____ to the best of my ability, I hope that you will be able to do the same.

If you have concerns, please address them with me and we'll conquer it together as responsible parents. While I'm hurt by what has transpired and do not know what the future may bring, I do know no matter what, we will always be parents together, no matter what is going on between us. On this front, we must still be a team and treat each other with honesty and respect.

Thanks,

______