I have been reading about detaching and I am still not sure about totally ignoring. I thought detaching was about GAL as a strong, independent woman who is out and about and having fun and not contacting H. I understaood that LBS would respond to conversation initiated by H in a cool, calm manner without being cold and without showing affection or emotion positive or otherwise. it wouldn't need to be immediate response. I am quite confused now and therefore am reluctant to respond to your thought about replying to H's email.
