Now I am confused again. Just looking around for inspiration and came across this about 180's:

What is a 180.....?

A complete OPPOSITE of

your MORE OF THE SAME behaviors

your partner's stereotype of you

the things that irritate your partner about you


My H always hated that I could go a whole week without the need to speak to him, if we had a fight. I was purely trying out 'going dark' without even knowing it at the time.

This is something that he has called me on since dropping the bomb and so now I don't know what to do - should I stay dark or make some small contact, like acknowledging his email in regard to changing his email address which he sent to me a few days back?

Yes - I am starting to panic Gucci and Stuck but I am not for caving yet ... just asking what people think?


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09