""They see something else that looks good to them and decide their covenant isn't worth standing for anymore.""
Again, this is where you are judgmental. People here have gone through hell and back. They are fighting for their covenant. They never see it worth standing for.
"We live in such a "please me now" world and patience is something that just seems to be lacking so much with this generation. Some stand until it is done, and others give up when they have decided that it is time to end it.
Ultimately, who decides when it is over? Don't we have a covenant? Wasn't it for life? When someone is sick, don't they need a doctor?
Our WAS's are sick right now. Many of us have caused that sickness. I know I have."
Let's face it, it takes two for a R to fail. Not just the LBS. AND it's not the LBS's fault if the WAS decides to have an A. There is NEVER a good reason for that. Either be M or end it so there is no A.
Many of the Newcomers here have to get over the fact that the failings of their R was not strictly their fault. Our WASs tell us the most demeaning things sometimes and our self-esteem is ripped to shreds. This is when they need to stand for themselves first and MAYBE the M later.
Again, I think it's great that you're standing for your M no matter what. But you've got to watch what you say for lack of people getting the idea that you're calling them "weak".
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.