Hi Kara thanks for dropping in with your great advice. I have been very good with the no emails, sms or phone calls (yes I used to be guilty of it a lot), so I stopped completely unless it is essential then I am very brief and to the point.
I wear the sexy nightwear not for H but for me because it makes me feel good, don't think he notices any more, he used to.
I think I will continue with the washing etc, as I have to anyway for D and myself but I have got a bit slack with the ironing and it isn't always done straight away or every week anymore.
I no longer ask him anything about his day, or why he is late or anything in fact conversation is at a complete bare minimum and is usually initiated by him.
I really do have to put my mind to it now that the move is over and I have started to get some things organised to resemble a home.
It is time to get back into my GALing and setting the clear goals of what I want to achieve for myself in the next six months.
I have often wondered about if there is an OW if he even has thought about icky diseases as such because I know he has a hatred for condoms and these things have played on my mind a bit.
