I agree about going to a IC no matter what. THe C that I have now is allowing me to do both with him. It is better that way, I think because he knows the story and he has met my H too.
I will continue to go either way.
I understand what you are saying about what do my kids see and hear. The good thing is that most of the time my H is gone or my kids are gone. I guess I can take small blessing when given on that.
I don't know how mush I am willing to take. That is a step I think I am conveinetly (?) forgetting because it's too hard for me to set a date, a time, an event, or whatever, to cal it quits. I know I am stalling on it but I just can't bring my self to do it just yet.
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09
