Yeah, being H has said he was going to go months ago he basically has cut off all his social interactions here anyway and just kinda hangs out. H also complains, is negative and really tonight I could not keep quiet and just said a couple of times quit being such a negative creep and keep it to yourself. WOW!! Couldn't believe I said it but said it just matter of fact and went on to something else. The tension is so thick tonight you could cut it with a knife.
You are right he is done I can feel it and his depression keeps him doing nothing therefore he has hitched along with me probably out of boredom. H had said he could go to Montreal for 6 months as a visitor and would work on getting his citizenship there; however, maybe there is something to what you are saying. His leave dates keeps changing supposedly now it is end of Sept.
Wow, it just takes so much guts to tell someone your marriage is done and than just keep hanging around and making life miserable. To be that self-absorbed is unfathomable to me after all these years together to be discounted really hurts.
This emotional battle feels like hell to me but it sounds like you had a battle royal.
If you would care to share more I would welcome your story and/or advice.
Thanks again for speaking out it was no doubt difficult.
Michele
M 42 H 41 M 16 yrs. Together 22 yrs. No Kids Bomb 5/16/09 D papers in home unsigned
