Journaling:

Following Coach's advice, I asked "Did you learn anything new today?" of my W.

W: "I learned I miss my old job. That I don't really enjoy my new job as much as I should. I was reading 'Standing at the Crossroads' and found that I am right on track.
M: "Of successful women?"
W: "No. Of the stages. It says that 29 to 33 is when women focus on their careers to the detriment of other parts of their life. Family, relationships, etc. ... This is the stage when most seperations and divorces occur."
W: "... the next stage is more hopeful."
M: "If it isn't too late."
W: "It is when women begin to work on wholeness. Start to work on important relationships and connections. ..."

OM is the one that helped her get current job. She took it as him helping her to move her along in her career. I look at it as a way to get her out from under his management so he could pursue her without the threat of sexual harassment looming.


Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1