I Like scifigirl's post, too. I really do. And from this point on I will make a better effort. Sara said to detach for the shirt run. I will use that as a stepping stone, and continue earnestly detaching after the weekend. Tonight I came home from a cub scout meeting I went to straight from work. I told her what we did because it concerns our son. The only other thing I brought up was that I passed a fatal motor vehicle accident close to our home and asked her to pray for the victim. About the cub scouts. I volunteered to be my sons den leader. This means more distraction for me! I will be doing den meetings, monthly pack meetings, day trips, camping, etc. And I will be doing it all with my son. I am very happy about this. I am going to follow my boys all the way up to eagle scout if they want to go that far. Thanks for all your concern. I think I have reached a turning point here with all your help. For the few minutes I talked to W tonight, I was able to look at her slightly differently. Hopefully this means I am on my way.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.