I Like scifigirl's post, too. I really do. And from this point on I will make a better effort. Sara said to detach for the shirt run. I will use that as a stepping stone, and continue earnestly detaching after the weekend.
Tonight I came home from a cub scout meeting I went to straight from work. I told her what we did because it concerns our son. The only other thing I brought up was that I passed a fatal motor vehicle accident close to our home and asked her to pray for the victim.
About the cub scouts. I volunteered to be my sons den leader. This means more distraction for me! I will be doing den meetings, monthly pack meetings, day trips, camping, etc. And I will be doing it all with my son. I am very happy about this. I am going to follow my boys all the way up to eagle scout if they want to go that far.
Thanks for all your concern. I think I have reached a turning point here with all your help. For the few minutes I talked to W tonight, I was able to look at her slightly differently. Hopefully this means I am on my way.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.