I have read some of your post in the past and I appreciate your opinion. Right now the thought of the OM is eating me alive. I start thinking about if things do work out beteeen the two of them, this guy could potentially be part of the family. Even having him meet the kids makes want to crawl out of my skin. I want to explain to her how I feel about all of this but I am certain it will not matter.
I know I need to focus on myself and the kids but this situation is just so wrong. I have been trying to validate for a while and not having much luck.
