Dan's conversation was full-on nutjobbery, I tell ya. He thought he'd drop that on you, and you'd back off and take the little Dan dribbles he sent your way. And then he came clean about OW too? Wow.

I agree that IF (and a really, really big IF) there's any chance of Dan changing and "choosing" to work on things, it will be because you keep moving forward and calling BS on his act.

You sound clear...good for you!

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!