The LBS being described by the WAS as "controlling" is pure script. Don't let it effect you or bother you. It's all part of her delusion to try to reshape you into the mold she needs you to be in within her mind.

Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.