Hmmmm.....well the closest I can come to your sitch isn't really close at all, but, here goes:
I dated and had sex with my first xh (five years after our D) while I was dating my second xh who was dating and having sex with someone else.
So second xh and I get together for real and were married for 12 years. And neither of us beat the other one up for anything so ridiculous as......
ok, so it's not at all like your sitch. Sorry. But I am sure that your sitch happens a lot.
May I ask if either you or your w ever grilled one another about past lovers? I never did and neither did either of my exes. It would have been unseemly to discuss gory details.
I will never understand people who feel the need to shame their loved one about things that happened before they were a couple. Sickening!!
