Yes, I don't know, he has moved in but who knows once the old house changes hands on Thursday.
I was on a real roll there for a bit. I haven't initiated conversations with H unless I have absolutely positively had to so I have that bit right. I think he probably is cake eating, funny I came to that conclusion the other day, why move when you can go out and have all the fun at the nightclubs and pubs but come home and your clothes etc are all ready for you.
That will be one mighty hard thing to do, backing off on the laundry and stuff. I think he may be a bit agro because he did tell me to find a house for just D and I which I did, but now because he is here there isn't enough room for all his crap and I think that has hit him a bit. Don't know for sure just speculation.
No I never found out what was in the car, did manage to have a look but found nothing, he still hides his keys and his phone but I try not to think about that anymore.