BigJohn, Are you prepared to deliver the monolouge that Gucci spelled out? This approach really works to get a WAS to feel the consequences of their behavior. It is a very real and loving boundary for all involved. Try to imagine this situation happening in reverse and how this approach would work. You can handle it.
Cheers Coach
Coach,
Thank you for the feedback. Actually I did deliver a monologue very similar to my W as soon as we got back from our little trip. My next move was to file for D.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________
