Any thoughts about the work thing? If your stbx offered to hook you up, would you accept? Feels a tad whorie to me but then so does being nicer to him so he'll give me money.
Say this gets really ugly in a legal sense between your lawyer and his lawyer should it ever get to that, if you're given job opportunities and you choose not to pursue them for personal reasons, I'm not sure how that's going to put you in a positive light in anyone's eyes. The economy being what it is, if you have the opportunity to work and earn money to support yourself and you choose not to, that may not be something that works out in your favor.
The issue is, and I have plenty of documentation, his constant contact and butting into my business. If he has a lead or an opportunity, I will pursue it but I will not have him as a middle man. I think I could easily explain that. My sanity is too important. The offer came when I had not been responding to him and that is the pattern...he finds something I just have to respond to.
