Originally Posted By: aliveandkicking
I highly recommend NOT getting a tattoo at this juncture. The likelihood that what we would choose today will match what we want etched on our bodies a year from now is pretty slim.

I can't even decide what I want for lunch, where I want to live, how I want to make a living...I sure as sh*t am not gonna commit to branding something on my bod.


seems to me you should re-read your own post and apply it to many other things going on in your life, namely your husband. How many times have we all sold ourselves out of our marriages only to buy ourselves back in at a price we wish was just a little lower (dignity, pride, ego, embarrassment, confusion, etc.).

Are you really committed to ending this marriage with your husband? Is there no way for you to see any possibility of reconciling with him?