Hey Michelle! Sorry been MIA for a while there. Thats not nice that STBX is spreading malicious tales about you, or even if he feels its true.. thats so disrespectful and childish, seeing as you work in the same arena, he really ought to have the good grace to keep quiet. Perhaps he worries what people have heard about him so he is trying to level out opinion?? Anyway, sorry to hear that, another low blow hey.
Wow, so your M&D liked RB then?? You have been with him for ages.. I remember being nervous when I first introduced bf to my parents, after seeing him for over 6 months, but it was fine! Its a big hurdle so I am glad you got the seal of approval. Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Hey Lady! Sorry that STBX is still a brat but he is nothing if not consitent. Still shirking his responsibility for the breakdown of the R & M. Too bad for him because he doesn't realize what a lucky idiot he truly has been. You have been nothing but nice and forthright with him, when realistically you could have stuck it to him in many ways.
Keep taking the high road as I'm quit sure it is not referrenced in his survival book.
Glad the 'rents liked R. I'm so happy for you and the continued success and happiness you have found.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
You guys sure know how to make me laugh! Must be why I've stuck around these boards for 2 years now. Sheesh. Hard to believe it's been that long.
And sometimes hard to believe I'm still dealing with the repercussions years later. I guess now I know why I always thought it was important to fight for my M - getting D sure ain't easy either!
I don't know what is going through his head. And I sure ain't gonna ask! Lol.
I'm just trying to take it one day at a time and keep focused on the future. One thing this whole traumatic experience has taught me is to keep my priorities straight and not get hung up on the little things. It's far more important to just enjoy life.
And on that note, today is payday. So I'm cooking RB a nice dinner and he's bringing over wine.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
I made seasoned chicken breasts, couscous, corn, and green beans. We had wine, and watched a little House. Then my roommate got home. And my friend from school asked if she could drop by after class lol.
It's all good though.
Going to the gym after work today.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Hey Michelle, I have a question for you. With RB do you know of his past GF & R's? Or do you feel that is not important? And I don't mean extensive info - just general, is he open & honest about it?
Just trying to figure out how wacko I am!
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
