At this point, you are giving him a lot of credit. I think that event sounded like lots of fun. That's why she wanted to go and it would have been fun for the kids too. (I don't mean to be disrespectful for the person being memorialized....but I think you understand that.)
When I walked she felt abandoned and I don't think she felt like any of our friends were there enough for her. These old high school friends have taken her in and she seems to feel a sense of belonging or comfort or security or something. I cant help but wonder if she's afraid to let go of that. OM is definitely a part of it but maybe its a package deal for her. They seem to be a bit rougher around the edges than most of the friends we have together and she seems very sensitive to that. She has accused me several times of not seeing people the same way she does, being prejudice, etc. It's like she's struggling with a bunch of different things.
Mind reading again.
BTW. If she's looking for a man who wants to date a woman with children, I know one who's waiting
Last edited by RedSoxFan; 08/31/0909:45 PM.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09