Young couple in need of help

[sumguy27]

Today I'm not doing so well. Wife came back from her trip and was very short answer with me. She texted me today saying she cannot afford the SUV and wants the corolla instead. She also said she is closing her account that we have that is joint. And is going to re-open a new account. We are suppose to meet up at 5 or 6 to exchange the kids.

I don't want to blow things out of portportion. Tomorrow is the big concert and I just want to have fun with her again. So I don't want to ruin things today for tomorrow. I'm going to try and avoid confrontation.

The hard thing is I guess she has been telling all her family members that "she loves me but is not in love with me anymore." I hate hate those freaking words. I hate them because I used them on her at first when I was blind. Now the tables have turned and it feels like she is drifting farther apart.

Some days I just want to say F it. But when I look at my kids I keep telling myself to not give up. Deep down I know she loves me. Its just so hard to break that wall.