Well, I was very pleasant with H tonight (anyone see the movie Sybil ) but when he suggested leaving his laundry...uh, no. And then he lingered around sifting through things to take, I told him now wasn't the best time for this and then as he persisted, I said "Ok, I think it is time for you to go now" and I went and opened the front door and led him out." All very civil but the feeling of having him casually plucking items just unnerved me so.
I did good.
He called me after to thank me for letting him work here. I thanked him for working. And that was that.
He called again but didn't answer, haven't checked the messages yet.
Tomorrows topic- Is WASness a form of temporary insanity? TBD.
So in your current situation, your H is the WAS? Did he have an affair? What was his reason for leaving?
Sometimes we have to recognize the signs of a WAS that wants to come back but doesn't know how or feels really bad about what they've done and feels it's impossible to apologize to atone for what they've done. Why do you think he wanted to linger? To spend more time around you or just to snoop around your stuff?
) but when he suggested leaving his laundry...uh, no. And then he lingered around sifting through things to take, I told him now wasn't the best time for this and then as he persisted, I said "Ok, I think it is time for you to go now" and I went and opened the front door and led him out." All very civil but the feeling of having him casually plucking items just unnerved me so. 
