Orich,

None of the questions are "Do you love your spouse?" C'mon, we're trying to heal marriages!

Yes, the frightened faces of the crowd on friday night... We see them everytime. That is normal. That's why I go and just smile at people. But you needn't be frightened. And it won't last long. By Saturday morning everyone looks more relaxed, and by Sunday, they are holding hands and taking leisurely strolls together around the grounds. I promise, the questions are non-threatening. They do open you up for discussion, but in ways that don't harm the other. She opened up to you today. She will certainly open up at Retrouvaille.