GG, It doesn't matter how much "stuff" they take when they leave. Some will take all of it, which others bits and pieces. Walk around your home, you just might notice other things missing as well. I wouldn't worry too much about all of it being gone. Look at it another way...you don't have to pack it up and stow it somewhere.
You can now focus on redecorating, etc. I know that this isn't what you wanted, but you are being given some breathing room to change things around, more to suit you.
Hang in there and try not to read too much into what he does or says right now.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
